Hearts & Collars

When we started our power exchange relationship, we didn’t have many models for it. We didn’t know people in the lifestyle. We hadn’t tried this type of relationship before. We both came into it with emotional burdens and trauma. And in spite of that, we were able to consciously design a power exchange relationship that helps us both grow, brings us closer emotionally, helps us heal some of those hurts, and fulfills our deep desires.

The tools we share in this book are ones that have worked for us over the last twenty years. We hope some of them will help you avoid pitfalls we stumbled into. Some of them may be right for you, or for your partner(s), and some of them may not. Like going clothes shopping, we invite you to try everything on; and if it doesn’t fit, leave it on the rack.

If there’s one thing we hope you take away from this book, it’s this: whoever you are, whatever you’ve been through, you have the ability to reflect, and grow, and become the person you want to be. Although it does take work, unflinching honesty with yourself, and compatible partner(s), it is possible to create relationships that hold you up, and help you thrive. We did it. So can you.

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Eros Gathering: Sado Shamanism w/belet dawn [NEW CLASS]

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Step into a space where primal energy and sacred ritual converge. In this evocative presentation, Belet Dawn— Modern Qadishti and practitioner of sacred sexuality and shamanic paths for over 20 years—offers a powerful exploration of conscious sadism as a spiritual tool for transformation, healing, and altered states of awareness.

Sado-Shamanism is not just about pain or pleasure—it’s about presence. It’s a sacred path that uses sensation as a gateway, a way to bypass the noise of the mind and access deeper states of consciousness. By working with the body, we create conditions that allow the psyche and energy body to crack open—revealing what’s ready to be seen, released, or transformed.

In this work, the flesh becomes a ritual tool. Implements like floggers, paddles, and whips aren’t used for punishment or erotic play—they’re used with sacred intent to guide the receiver beyond self-imposed limits. Through this process, they may enter an altered state, a liminal space where catharsis and energetic healing can unfold.
This isn’t for everyone. Sado-shamanism resonates most deeply with those who can experience pain as a spiritual activator, a way to access something beyond the physical. The goal is transcendence, not arousal.

Sado-shamanism is one of many paths to altered consciousness. For those who are called, it can be powerful, transformative, and deeply liberating.

*This class was first taught by Michelle Belanger — author of many books, including The Psychic Vampire Codex.

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She passed on the class to me, belet dawn, to be revamped (see what I did there?) and the info shared once again.

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