As of today, Dan and dawn have been in a formal power exchange relationship for 20 years. They hope to have a new book out soon, sharing what it's been like. Lot's has changed in...
20 years in a Power Exchange Relationship
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EA558 – In One Ear
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about with Dr. Bob and the Goddess Indigo about communication! We talk about how to talk, how to listen, there new...
EA557 – The Dominant Flex
This week on a live Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about the Dominant flex - or how to avoid being an ass. Become a Patron! [iframe style="border:none"...
Farming your relationship
Dan says… In talking with two friends just starting an M/s relationship with each other, I tried to share withthem the need to balance the active process of building the...
The day in the life of a submissive
(note: D/s, M/s, Authority Transfer and Power Exchange used interchangeably. We started as D/s, moved to M/s, then the term Power Exchange became popular and now 'Authority...
EA556 – Advanced Submission
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about what it is like to be a submissive or slave with 20 years (real) experience. Are things just easy now? Is it...
Available! Polyamory Dating Guide
Love is Abundant…if You Know Where to Look Realizing that you are polyamorous can be a wonderful insight. It may feel like a solution to a long term feeling that you never fit in...
Poly and Dating Over 40 – from The Polyamory Dating Guide by Dan and dawn
I was on a zoom call this morning with my much younger girlfriend....and was telling her about this guy that was interested in me, but I wasn't sure I wanted to follow through...
New Relationship Energy …or lack thereof…aka DemiSexual
So, for years I’ve been thinking that I must just be weird….for many reasons. But, this one in particular. I don’t experience NRE. The only time I’ve come close is my first...
EA555 – Collar Guilt
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about how to get passed collar guilt. Plus they have a great conversation with Devyn Stone on Pragmatically Kinking...
Dan and dawn busy in February!
Take your pick! or join them all! We'd love to see you 🙂 Friday, Feb. 5, 7pm est - PK Presents: Guide to Polyamory Dating --> https://fetlife.com/events/966223 Sunday,...
Sensual BDSM – zoom Feb. 7th 6pm EST
Dan and i present on a lot of topics....but one of my favorites is when we talk about sensuality, bringing connection to a scene. Whether it's our 'Sensual Humiliation', 'Sensual...
EA554 – Edge Play
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn explore if there is a difference between Edge Play and Hard Scenes. Plus they talk with @JaneEBoon about her new book,...
EA553 – Guide to Threesomes
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Stella Harris about threesomes! Plus they blow up on YouTube PLUS Dan isn't much for flogging? Become a Patron!...
EA552 – Heavy Scenes
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn are live as they talk about heavy scenes! [iframe style="border:none"...
Hard Paddle
April sat, shy and uncertain, alone at a small table. The bar seemed to dwarf her, the dark smoky air battered unceasingly by a jukebox that alternated between George Thorogood’s...
Where to go to meet poly people
Exert from The Polyamory Dating Guide © 2021 Dan & Dawn WilliamsOne of the ways you can meet other polyamory people is polyamory specific events and groups and gatherings....
EA551 – Pegging
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Nookie about pegging! Plus the list of events are just too long! PLUS sex tips that are...kind of lame....
Certificate of Gratitude
Fair vs Equal
One year, Karen and I took a five day cruise for vacation. It was great! Being able to unwind, a very lax agenda, room service, romantic meals by moonlight, just a fantastic...
EA550 – Hodgepodge IV
This week, Dan and dawn are live and talking about...well, a lot of everything! [iframe style="border:none"...
EA549 – Flame Conference
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EA548 – Negotiations for Everyone
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Manny and Wyo from Kink Buffet on negotiations for all kinds of relationships. Plus kinky xmas gift ideas! PLUS...
EA547 – Oh Those Toes
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with TopToes and Ennie on Foot Fetishes! Plus casual Saturday and failing to take it easy. [iframe style="border:none"...
Managing Multiple Power Exchange Relationships – Dec. 6
Quote of the Day
dawn’s personal card
In case you missed the live podcast, here is the card I pulled for one of our listeners!
EA546 – Eros Gathering
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about dawn's project Eros Gathering and the need for appropriate sacred sexuality. Plus hard core quarantine time and...
EA545 – Balloon Fetish
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with The Balloon guy on Balloon Fetishes! Plus being like a mentor and ranking very well in Myanmar [iframe...
EA544 – The Columbus Space Special Announcement
Not long ago we announced the Columbus Space was closing down...tune in for this special announcement about the future of the Columbus Space! [iframe style="border:none"...
EA543 – What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with HiThereCatSuit from the What Women* (and other wonderful humans) Want podcast about the right way and the wrong...
EA542 – Looking for a Sexual Partner
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about what they look for in a sexual partner! Plus they do the show live! [iframe style="border:none"...
EA541 – Power Exchange Fantasy Into Reality
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about moving your fantasy of being a sub or a dom to real life! [iframe style="border:none"...
Sunday Oct 18 4pm – Topic – Alchemy: Turn Jealousy Into Compersion
When things are quiet, we believe in polyamory. Unlimited love, compassion, sharing, our partner’s happiness. And then we see them with another partner and it suddenly all comes...
EA540 – Power exchange polyamory mystery box
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn field listener questions on power exchange, another significant other, and more. Plus they add a video component plus dawn...
EA539 – CBT
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Ms D Dom, Cream Dream, and Handro_Solo about cock and ball torture, both from the perspective of the top and the...
EA538 – Ethical Non-Monogamy with Marie D’Elephant
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Marie D'Elephant from the Everyone's Autonomous podcast about ethical non-monogamy, culture, and being normal!...
EA537 – Closing the Space Blog Entry
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn are joined by Barak and Sheba as we talk about the end of an era - the Columbus Space is closing down. Our regrets, our...
EA536 – Quickee
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EA535 – Self Service Aftercare
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Slave Shelley on Self Service Aftercare! Plus dawn gets attacked! By a wasp! Twice! PLUS prison fantasy and...
EA534 – Emotional Masochism
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn have a fantastic conversation with Jerith on Emotional Masochism! Plus why don't people like feet? [iframe...
EA533 – Sexy Writing
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about with Daphne Matthews on who to keep consent sexy in her book series - and lots more! Ready to start sexy...
EA532 – Finding a Femdom with Ms D Dom
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about with MsDDom on how to find and successfully engage with a Femdom (and what not to do). Plus they share Dan's...
EA531 – Moving In Polyamory
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about steps to be successful when moving a poly partner into an existing home! Plus gags and gagging. PLUS the best...
EA530 – Master Hank
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, dawn interviews Master Hank! Don't miss an episode! Click below to subscribe [iframe style="border:none"...
EA529 – Minion
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Minion about her experience as an African American kinkster and power exchange person! Plus they talk about kinks...
EA528 – Human Tapestry
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with Mike from the Human Tapestry podcast about well different people and difference in people! Plus they figure out...
EA527 – Poly & Dating
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn have a brain storming session on how they can find people to date! They say it is for dating for people in there age...
EA526 – blog kame bat’s passing
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sad news about kame bat
On the morning of Thursday, June 4th, we received a call that bat was found unresponsive at home and being taken to the hospital. She is currently on life support but her...
EA525 – Polyamory In India
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk Arun from the One and One More podcast on what it is like to practice polyamory...
EA524 – Master Your Self
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about how before you master a sub, you should master yourself. AND that subs and slaves don't get a free pass from...
EA523 – Obedience
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about Obedience - is it any different than submission? Plus they share about two kinks they both like! PLUS Dan finds...
EA522 – Beyond the slap and tickle
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about #BDSM scenes that go deep and intimate. Plus home projects you can do while you are waiting to go back...
EA521 – The Leather Couch
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk Stefani Goerlich, a Sex, Relationship, & Mental Health Therapist, Clinical & Media Consultant, and author of...
EA520 – submission and anxiety
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with slave Bunny on submission and anxiety! Plus lots of chatting on zoom! PLUS three new fetishes! [iframe...
EA519 – Historical Erotical with Autumn Bardot
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about Historical Erotical with author and wonderful guest Autumn Bardot! Plus they share One Good Flirting tip! PLUS...
EA518 – My Poly Doesn’t Respect My Power Exchange
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk when you start a polyamory relationship and they say your power exchange gets in the way. Plus supporting kink! ...
EA517 – Polyamory in a Pandemic
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk with David, an ex-Mormon from Utah, who shares the challenges of being polyamorous in a...well, in Utah! Plus...
EA516 – Ms in a Pandemic
More of a blog post than normal show, we talk about power exchange in the time of COVID-19. [iframe style="border:none"...