This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by @kuldrin and talk about fear play! How to get started, bugs in boxes, and aftercare for fifty people! ...
EA632 – Fear Play
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EA631 – Blood Play with Kuldrin
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to Kuldrin about blood play! Plus they talk about the right way to approach a boot black and they talk about how...
Jealousy vs. Envy
Recently on the Erotic Awakening Podcast (www.eroticawakening.com), Dan and I talked about jealousy vs. envy. For me, I expressed how jealousy has always been a negative emotion...
How to Follow – Helping a Leader find their seat of power
Believe it or not, not all Leaders come into their relationships full of confidence and know-how. Dan sure didn’t. I was his first submissive. He was my first Dominant. We...
EA630 – Vetting with Unique!
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk to Unique about vetting - both for people and for events! And we talk about why it is making a comeback. Plus, we...
EA629 – Envy vs Jealousy
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss the difference between envy and jealousy…and what to do about both! Plus, we share alternatives to kneeling for...
2 Styles of Power Exchange Relationships
There are many different styles of Power Exchange Relationships. 2 of the styles we talk about in ‘Hearts and Collars’ is Co-op and Military. Various other names can be...
EA628 – Long Term Power Exchange and Kink
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about long term power exchange and kink - and if kink and play can be part of your long term relationship? How to keep...
EA627 – Yoga for Kink
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Elisha Thompson about Yoga For Kink! Plus strap ons and stygiophilia! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things Dan & dawn...
EA626 – Creative Kinky Scenes
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Freya about some really amazing and creative scenes - and how to get the scene you want! Plus you can now...
Ordeal Rituals in Power Exchange
In our newest book, “[Hearts and Collars](www.heartsandcollars.com)”, we talk about the importance of ordeal rituals in our power exchange dynamic. We also discussed this...
EA625 – Power Exchange Relationship Shorthand
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about power exchange relationship shorthand, a communication tool we have found valuable in our power exchange...
EA624 – Best Of – Your Sex In The Mail
Dan & dawn are on the road, presenting at @Gwnn_bash! So we present a show from the archives, from 9 years ago, July 2013, when we visited with Trouvere and discuss all kinds...
EA623 – Event Time!
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about preparing for big events - specifically GWNN Bash! (@GWNNAustin @gwnn_bash). What do you take, what do you wear,...
EA622 – Frenzy!
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn frenzy with Unique! Sub frenzy, dom frenzy, back to events after 2 years indoors frenzy! Plus Pony play, Hearts &...
EA621 – Approaching Potential Partners
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about how to approach potential partners…and what to do if it isn’t a fit. Plus we return from @TesFest and hanging...
EA620 – Self Confidence is Sexy
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Tracy Crossley (@TracyCrossley) for a talk about how to gain that sexy self confidence! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all...
EA619 – Love Oral Always
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined Melanie Cristol, founder and CEO of Lorals (@MyLorals), a company that makes silky latex undies that are...
The First Tool – Polyamory
From 'The Polyamory Toolkit" by Dan Williams and Dawn Williams (2019) TOOL #1 - DEVELOPING YOUR WHY Dan says… I can certainly recall more than once...
EA618 – Brat University
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by Zoey (Brattastic) from Brat University to discuss bratting! What is unethical bratting, in bratting a kink,...
EA617 – BDSM & Disabilities
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by @daddy_tyr to discuss challenges that differently abled people may have around BDSM! Plus donuts to protect...
EA616 – Reddit Naughty Images and Videos
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn have one more week with guest @_Kevin_ and @_katie we discuss our favorite porn on the website Reddit! You'll be surprised...
EA615 – Humor and Joy in Authority Transfer Relationships
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are again joined by @_Kevin_ and @_katie as we have a conversations around joy and humor in our authority transfer...
EA614 – Is Sex Fair in Authority Transfer
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn are joined by good friends @_Kevin_ and @_katie as we discuss mismatched libidos in authority transfer relationships. If...
EA613 – Households with Kuldrin
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @Kuldrin about Households - what they are, why do it, if it is about support...or orgies. PLUS lots of...
EA612 – Forced Blow Job with Auntie Vice
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with @AuntieVice about forced blow jobs - how to give them, how to receive them, and how to convince your top you...
EA611 – Tools for Jealousy
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about jealousy! How do deal with it, when it is good or bad (or do those words apply), jealousy vs envy, the value of...
EA610 – Are We Ready for Non-monogamy?
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn discuss how to know if your relationship is ready for non-monogamy.. The first of four shows on ethical non-monogamy. Plus...
EA609 – Mentors
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about peer mentoring in power exchange relationships. Plus what to do (and how to avoid) getting stood up by a...
April Presentations
April Let’s Chat! With our Patrons - Polyamory (Zoom) Sunday April 3, 6pm EDT https://fetlife.com/events/1061086 ONLINE - TES Presents: Power Exchange, Polyamory, and...
EA608 – Life Affirming Power Exchange
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about if a power exchange relationship - specifically, ours - can be life affirming. Plus tea, a non kinky podcast, a...
Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks
Self Publishing - Next Power Exchange Book - Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks Eleven years ago when we had 'Living M/s' published.....self-publishing was...
EA607 – Real BDSM Scenes
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about what a bdsm scene is actually like but describing the ones they just experienced! Plus we get to meet some...
A Weekend at Kinky Kollege
A weekend at Kinky Kollege Oh my! What a much needed weekend!! Much much much needed! Exactly 2 years ago since our last event! And even that one didn't have naked people. So,...
EA606 – Sex and Kink Coaching
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with MksThingsHappin (https://fetlife.com/users/1835733) about sex, kink and relationship coaching for singles and...
Permission Based Relationship
While we were interviewing someone for the podcast a the other night, they used a descriptor that I hadn’t heard of before in the years we’ve been living power exchange: a...
EA605 – Anticipatory Service
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Hannah the Scribe (https://fetlife.com/users/7113554) on anticipatory service! . Plus face slapping, face...
EA604 – Submissive Needs Not Being Met
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn explore what submissives can do when their needs are not being met. Plus dawn talks about dragon sex and Dan says...
How Survivors Can Thrive in a Power Exchange Relationship
This is a class I (dawn) have been teaching for many, many years. After our first OLF (Ohio Leather Fest) at the beginning of our relationship, I knew this was something I...
EA603 – Real Leather
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Master Tyr on Leather and Leather culture. Plus Dan says yes to double penetration. -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things...
‘My’ Master ….word choice
I came across someone's post a few days ago that kept refering to 'the Domme that I serve' ....and it made me think/remember. When I talk about Dan, I usually say 'my Master' or...
EA602 – Violet Wands
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Dr Van Hertz for an in depth conversation on violet wands! Plus dacryphilia and more! -=-=-=-=-=- Find all things...
EA601 – Self Bondage
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Katrina about self bondage! Why, how, and more! Plus they share what a therapist had to say about us! And...
EA600 – Kinky Dating, Ignoring Limits, Clothed Sex
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn answer a listener question on how to get started with kinky dating! Plus they talk about if it is ok to suggest you are...
EA599 – Kinks I Wish I Had
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about kinks we don't have...but wish we did. Plus they talk about the 'subbie presence', and if Dan can really...
As a submissive/slave/follower, what do you bring to the table?
What do you bring to the table? Last night during our sub chat on zoom, I offered the topic of “As a sub/slave/follower, what do you bring to the table?” I love starting off the...
EA598 – Cunnilingus
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about cunnilingus...and describe how they do it! Plus we disagree about early relationships. And we talk about...
EA597 – Favorites of 2021 part 2
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn share part 2 of our favorites of 2021! We talk about our favorite BDSM scene, favorite virtual event we attended, favorite...
The year in Review Wow….what a year. 2021 brought a lot of changes for Dan and I. It was a weird beginning with still being in the midst of covid, the Space closed so our...
EA596 – Favorites of 2021 part 1
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn review our favorites of 2021! We talk about our favorite BDSM toy, favorite event we attended, favorite power exchange...
EA595 – Gestures, Diapers, Pornhub
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about different gestures of submission. Both full power exchange and erotic types. And we talk with Miss Mae Ling...
Thanks to our patrons part 2!!
We have so many amazing patrons !!!! We split the names into 2 blog posts. Thank you all! You are very much appreciated!!
Fear Play – The Dichotomy
Fear Play - the dichotomy This is one of those types of play that is hard to describe.....but when there is a perfect storm, this really, really works for me. I'm not sure when...
EA594 – Long Distance Polyamory Relationships
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk with Sym and Peachy on how to create and maintain healthy long distance polyamory relationships! Plus, four more kinks...
Thanks to our Patrons
EA593 – Personal Pact and four more fetishes
Come visit us on Swingtowns! This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast, @dananddawn talk about the idea of creating a personal contract that sets out your needs and wants as a...
EA592 – Anon Ms and Obedience
This week on the Erotic Awakening Podcast Dan and dawn talk about four new kinks as well as have the host of the Anon-M/s event to tell us all about a different style of event!...
Experience Junkies
We are experience junkies. And though Dan doesn’t like to use the word ‘junkie’, I’m not sure what word is more fitting. We love to experience life and a lot of what it has to...
EA591 – What You Didn’t Learn in Sex Ed
What You Didn’t Learn in Sex Ed is a class taught by Bex, where they share the important idea that sex should be fun. Ln our school systems, if sex ed is taught at all, they...
Being a Survivor in a Power Exchange Relationship – Power Exchange Book #2 Chapter
This is the beginning of my chapter in our new Power Exchange book....being a survivor in a power exchange relationship.....after this beginning, I will have all the notes from...