The Polyamory Toolkit
A Guidebook for Polyamorous Relationships
The book focuses on specific tools people can use to address the common issues and deeper aspects of a polyamorous relationship. This work includes topics such as: Jealousy, Compersion – finding joy in your partners’ joy, Communication, Mitigating Triggers, Creating a Solid Foundation, and so much more.
And NOT Or – Learn to see others as adding to your life instead of replacing something
Uncomfortable vs Wrong – Learn to distinguish between these two perspectives
Breaking Habitual Patterns – You don’t have to respond based on your past
Place of Assistance – How to help your partners while staying true to yourself
This is an easy to read and very useful book. More than 25 useful tools in bite-size pieces for anyone involved in Polyamory, considering Polyamory, or for that matter, many of the tools are useful for all relationships. I have found this book to be more helpful than any of the other books I have read on Poly.
It’s fantastic! I got it, started reading and didn’t stop until I finished it! Huge CONGRATULATIONS!
The book was super useful. I recommend it to everyone who asks me for poly advice.
I loved it … our family bought 3 copies to read together. We went through the entire thing, book club style
I’m laying here in bed at 10:30 on a school night, tears leaking out of my eyes. All of you who know me know this part– I’m the mono slave of a poly guy. And I struggle. I almost didn’t buy this book because I thought “what can a book that was written by poly people, for poly people hold for me?”. I’ve been doing this for eight years now, I know what’s coming and that we will handle it together.
Just arrived last week! I intend to use it with clients also.