Ordeal Rituals – Collaring Ceremonies

Ordeal Rituals – Collaring Ceremonies

We’ve had a lot of people ask us lately about collarings and ordeal rituals (both with collarings and in general). Obviously collarings come in all shapes and sizes…..we’ve been talking about them on the podcast recently and during an interview with...
Kink & Power Exchange is my Fetish

Kink & Power Exchange is my Fetish

I was talking to a University class recently about Kink and Polyamory. During the discussion, they taught me something about myself. While they were trying to understand the difference between kink/fetish and what I got out of kink. They simplified it nicely....
Jealousy vs. Envy

Jealousy vs. Envy

Recently on the Erotic Awakening Podcast (www.eroticawakening.com), Dan and I talked about jealousy vs. envy. For me, I expressed how jealousy has always been a negative emotion for me. Not only do I want what my partner has, I don’t want them to have it....
2 Styles of Power Exchange Relationships

2 Styles of Power Exchange Relationships

There are many different styles of Power Exchange Relationships.    2 of the styles we talk about in ‘Hearts and Collars’ is Co-op and Military. Various other names can be used for these styles, but these are the ones we are using in the book.  These are the 2...