In the power exchange world of today, I often see a stance that is so anti ‘one twue way’ (that is, no one can say that the only path to being a good leader in a power exchange relationship is you have to do A and B or you are a poser) that it implies...
Believe it or not, not all Leaders come into their relationships full of confidence and know-how. Dan sure didn’t. I was his first submissive. He was my first Dominant. We learned this dance together. He did a great job showing a face of confidence, and taking risks...
There are many different styles of Power Exchange Relationships. 2 of the styles we talk about in ‘Hearts and Collars’ is Co-op and Military. Various other names can be used for these styles, but these are the ones we are using in the book. These are the 2...
In our newest book, “[Hearts and Collars](www.heartsandcollars.com)”, we talk about the importance of ordeal rituals in our power exchange dynamic. We also discussed this during the Book Club of MAsT: San Diego last night. ********************************* For...
From ‘The Polyamory Toolkit” by Dan Williams and Dawn Williams (2019) TOOL #1 – DEVELOPING YOUR WHY Dan says… I can certainly recall more than once shaking my head and wondering “Why am I even bothering with this...
Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks Eleven years ago when we had ‘Living M/s’ published…..self-publishing was complicated and not common. We had thought of self-publishing, but a...
